Humility

Have you ever heard anyone say: I don’t like to apologize.

I’ve heard that from quite a few people in more recent years… Not so shockingly, I suppose. However, no matter how I look at it – no matter how many excuses I make for this type of person… If I am honest with myself and with them, I’d have to say, That’s not love… Not love the way Jesus instructs us to love.

There is no greater love than to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. You are my friends if you do what I command. John 15:13‭-‬14 NLT

What does it really mean to lay down your life? I suppose it could mean a great many things… but if you ask me? Humility.

It’s a difficult thing, sometimes, to humble yourself. Especially in the heat of a debate or disagreement. Especially when you know you’re right.. Or if you’re like me… You realize that you’re indeed wrong mid-discussion, yet continue with your flawed point of view… At least, that’s how I used to be… I don’t mind admitting when I’m wrong these days.

Thing is, “…God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble.” James 4:6 KJV

I’ve learned that pride is divisive. It separates relationships. It keeps us from admitting when we’re wrong. It keeps us from apologizing. Pride prevents true repentance. Which is why humility is so important. It’s also that much more difficult. When Jesus spoke of love, in the gospel of John 15:12-13 KJV, He said, “This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you. Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.”

I wondered if he not only meant physically, but also was referring to humility. Laying down one’s pride/ego, is one of the most difficult things for a person to do. But, when we love… doesn’t it go without saying. Isn’t losing one’s pride not only the first to go, but also it goes without saying, and it must go for the sake of love, peace, reconciliation, patience, kindness, etc… We must walk in humility for love to rule our souls.

*Original image courtesy of Yours Truly ☀️🌸